I'm not afraid of long distance, nor am I afraid of moving to follow him for med school, residency, fellowship etc. If I'm serving tables at a restaurant, I'm going to tell my boss that she's got to cover for me because there's an emergency and I'm leaving. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. My life may not be as stressful as that of a medical resident or a doctor, but I do often spend upward of 70 - 80 hours per week working. After a certain point "support" stops being supportive and turns into enabling - enabling of his depression, his anxiety, his reluctance to reflect deeply on who he is and what he wants out of life, and worst of all, my "support" ensures his continuation into a career that will not ultimately make him or me happy. IF she becomes an Atheist free thinker like you then consider keeping her.
How some find time for Affairs is beyond me!!. Maybe you will win. I'm still holding on and willing to wait for "Better days" with him after his residency.
Better navigate the business aspects of medicine and stay on top of the changing healthcare landscape. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. For me and the woman I'm in love with, we CAN discuss it without breaking down into spittle and hate. Sadly, my ward shuns us. I always felt guilty for feeling bored, depressed or anxious about spending so much time apart from him, but thanks all, for making me realize that I am not alone.
However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. To the two wondering sistersвYou both appear to be with loving, incredibly supportive men. Because what are Mormons about. So I came across this blog and I was hoping you ladies could give me some advice. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. The house is perfect, with nothing out of place. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god.